I totally LOVE this movie. It is hilarious. Pat's father played by Deniro is clearly an undiagnosed Bipolar with OCD issues and I related so much to Tiffany when she told her fake sister played by Julia Stiles"You're killing me!" That was brilliantly done because there are seriously f'd up dynamics in families with narcissists and clearly Stiles' character is a malignant narcissist pretending to only do well while she deliberately undermines her younger sister. Tiffany is so beautiful, honest, strong,dynamic, lovable, intelligent and fearless she is the perfect women. It was nice to see that an American man could step up to the plate for such a beautiful deserving woman and not go sniveling back to his narcissist wife who decided it was romantic to screw her husband's fellow teacher to their WEDDING SONG. You see I have given up on American men as I was there ten years ago before I decided European men are real men. Hotter more intelligent and they and up for what's right not shrink down and become yes men to witches who do not deserve anyone -but those cowards get exactly what they deserve. The narcissistic female is typical in The States I am so glad I live in Europe becasue it is hard to find narcissists here. They are so few.