On his Facebook page there was a 25th anniversary Q&A with three of the stars. I would have never recognized him in a million years. I still think of him, as a her 'Dil.' but he doesn't look anything like that now. Really short hair and probably 200 lbs.
He does sort of look like some transgenders in that when they were younger they were quite attractive then as they got older their maleness started showing through more. I know several, one is in her 60s and the other is in her 70s, and they both look like rather weird looking males with long hair. Jaye looked nothing like that, though. He is quite the looker.